Gentlemen, welcome to Save My Sexless Marriage.
I have spent the last several years reading relationship books and posting on every marriage forum I could find. I was searching for forums that had a lot of women… looking to get a perspective from a women’s view… what do women need to be happy?
As suspected, women can’t tell you what makes them truly happy!
They can tell you a myriad of things that make them unhappy. Like stress, job, pressures of raising children, and certain people in their lives.
They can tell you things that they enjoy. Like gifts, being pampered, and having lots of help with responsibilities.
But they cannot tell a man how to make them happy.
The one common factor I found in every happy/unhappy woman was the “MAN” in her life.
Without fail, every woman who I had contact with (hundreds), based their feelings of happiness on how the man in their life treated them and made them “FEEL”.
I did not find one woman that did not understand the importance of sex to a man and a marriage. Women will express different levels of libido. Some high, some low. But they all have a basic need/desire for sexual intimacy. Most all of them will admit that they are driven by their emotions, they go through highs and lows on a daily basis. That’s who they are, that’s how they are wired. But be assured, there is one thing that helps to stable out their emotional roller coaster ride, A “MAN”.
Not one single woman I spoke with, or read about, expressed that they did not want, desire, or need a man in their life. That too is hard wired into them.
So what makes a woman happy?
A man, a man that can inspire her… lead her… guide her… manage her thoughts, moods, and perceptions. A man that brings out the best in him and in her… a man that she cannot help but to be sexual, affectionate and loving with.
As I said, I have read all the popular books such as “The 5 love languages. His needs, her needs. No more Mister Nice Guy.” and I have spent countless hours on all the popular marriages forum sites.
Don’t get me wrong, they are excellent books, the forums are full of very caring and helpful people that offer good advice, I completely agree with the “manning up” that so many suggest, I suggest it myself.
The problem I see is that all of this advice does not go deep enough. It does not express how to deal with the day to day issues that we as husbands deal with. It does not give specific vocabulary on what a man should say to his wife about their sexless or troubled marriage.
There is no specific vocabulary on how to reply to a woman’s moods, attitudes, re-writing history, and “fitness tests”.
I am involved in a program for men only. The materials, the author, and the men on its private forums go much deeper into becoming a man that inspires a woman’s sexuality, desire, and how to get your wife to want sex again.
In addition to hundreds of pages concerning manning up, seducing your wife, and managing the way she thinks, acts, and behaves. They offer word for word vocabulary on what to say, when to say it, and how to precisely respond to how a resentful wife can treat us, speak to us, reject us, and make our day to day lives miserable, for not only us, but her and the rest of our families.
This program not only changed my sexless marriage. But for lack of better words, it showed me how to train my wife.
Are you a man in a sexless or troubled marriage? Has your wife expressed “I love you, but I’m not in love with you?
Would you like to learn how to turn your marriage around? Do you desire a happy, sexual, affectionate, loving wife?
It can be done; I have done it, as have hundreds of men in this program. You can do it too!
Become the man your woman can’t resist! Take the step towards the happy, SEXUAL marriage you deserve.
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I’ll see you on the forums.
